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tan Honorary SoulCyster Posts: 252 From:australia Registered: Apr 2001	posted 05-01-2002 01:44 AM some meds such as antidepressants can make orgasm hard to achieve! tan IP: Logged
MADLOVEOMAR4EVER Honorary SoulCyster Posts: 10 From:CLEVELAND, OH, USA Registered: Apr 2002	posted 05-01-2002 04:12 PM Ladies ! Ladies Ladies ! I don't want to brag about it but I can have about 6 and even more if I left my husband continue. My dh takes his time in bed and he starts by touching those real sensitive places and then he knows how to use His in a manner that really works. Maybe taking the time when it comes to having sex with your significant other is the answer. And by the way I have been married 11 years and it only gets better Take care all!!!! ------------------ MC(4/11/02)ONE ANGEL IN HEAVEN. KEEP THE HOPE!! IP: Logged
CTCyster BigCyster Moderator Posts: 480 From:Milford,CT USA Registered: Jun 2001	posted 05-01-2002 04:30 PM I too have a very hard time getting there- happens occasionally, though... Aimee IP: Logged
nellie Honorary SoulCyster Posts: 84 From:ayrshire, scotland Registered: Nov 2001	posted 05-01-2002 05:41 PM well i have NEVER experienced an orgasm, and to be honest have no idea what to expect. can someone be graphic with me and tell me what exactly it feels like. is it a rush or what? sex for me is ok but if i was to be in the middle of a session, then he suddenly stopped, i wouldn't have to calm down or anything. i would find it so easy just to stop. my ex was telling me today when we spoke about it that his wife has an orgasm and ejaculates every time they have sex. so its not what he is doing. we didn't rush sex. we spent ages on foreplay etc and the actual sex last for ages. a quickie to him lasted over an hour. any tips for me?? please!! ------------------ 19 years old diagnosed three years ago NOT ttc! depressed, mood swings, got hirsutism, and FAT! pissed off at docs. IP: Logged
soccernut Honorary SoulCyster Posts: 16 From:St. Louis, MO, USA Registered: Dec 2001	posted 05-01-2002 11:35 PM Thinking about having an O is really psychological for me. when I am getting more and more aroused, I picture my dh being a dad one day and holding our children in his loving arms. I think about how great of a man he is. How devoted and reliable he is. How hardworking he is for our family. I think about the times when my dh sacraficed his time and energy when I needed someone to hold me when I was feeling sad. I connect with the orgasm through imagery of some of the ways I feel most loved by my dh. When he touches me all over my sensitive genitals in a loving manner after he has been inside of me that seems to help me have lots of orgasms. If you can strengthen your abs muscles it also helps in having an orgasm and squeezing your PC muscles, like when you have to hold your pee so it does not come out also helps. There is something to be said about kinetics and having an orgasm. It also helps when I communicate with my dh in the moment if I need him to go faster, slower, more or less pressure of his fingers not the tips (where the nails are) but the soft part of his fingers to get the momentum going. Sometimes women can't climax because they do not have a balanced sense of self worth. Other times it may be because it is hard to talk to your partner about sex, maybe one spouse was brought up in thier home where sex was an off limits topic. Sometimes women are having marital conflict and do not feel a sense of love and warmth from their partner. As we all know, having a climax is an emotional experience as well as a physical one. Does anyone else agree with what I am saying? IP: Logged
soccernut Honorary SoulCyster Posts: 16 From:St. Louis, MO, USA Registered: Dec 2001	posted 05-01-2002 11:50 PM I bet the sensation of an orgasm varies from woman to woman, but I think there are some general characteristics that are shared during an orgasim. For me, my Orgasm feels similiar to rush that you get when you are on a roller coaster and suddenly you drop 60ft without the butterflies lol. Physiologically Your body temp increases, your blood pressure increases, heart increases, and your body tenses and spasms in exhillerating pleasure because the inner labia becomes gorged with blood and the moment it is released, that is when it feels so good. It is very similiar to what a man feels when he climaxes from the blood building up in his penis. Hope this helps IP: Logged
BrownEyedGirl Honorary SoulCyster Posts: 23 From:Connersville, IN USA Registered: Apr 2002	posted 05-01-2002 11:52 PM I would have to agree...it's all about communication and relaxation. With my ex I rarely O'd during sex and he wasnt into taking his time. He did his thing then reached for a cigarette. With my current hubby and love of my life things are so different. He has taken the time to really get to know my body and to know what works and what doesnt. He is not content unless I "O". Before starting Gluc I would have multiple. Now I have one or two and my drive isnt as strong. I think it has to do with the med lowering my testosterone level. IP: Logged

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